Perhaps you want to bring these issues to the Presiding Judge's attention?
Unless this judge is the Presiding Family Part judge. Then perhaps alert the Assignment Judge.
IMO, just because they are judges, it doesn't mean they can't be corrected by a higher authority for ignoring the rules.
Best,
Ed
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