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  • 1.  Attorney for Child

    Posted 07-13-2016 05:22 PM

    I have a client [Mom] who is the PPR of her 12 year old boy.  She has been in and out of court for 6 years on an ugly custody matter. Sparing you good folks the drama, suffice it to say that, in the last 4 years,  Dad's motions to become PPR or to increase his parenting time have become annual or semi-annual events. 

    Dad starts "working on" Son just before he files a motion for additional parenting time.  Son tells Dad he doesn't want to visit more than what the scheduled provides (weekends) but Dad keeps pushing and finally files a motion (none of which have ever been granted). 

    Dad has now gotten to the point where he is punishing Son for not wanting to spend any additional time with him.  Because the Son was worked over pretty well (not physically) by Dad and stepmom for the last 30 days, he now wants to reduce the time he spends with Dad.

    The boy has a friend whose father is an attorney.  That attorney has offered to represent the boy [pro bono].  Nothing has been filed yet but Dad will likely file a motion against Mom for violating his parenting time rights.  [For the first time ever, she allowed her son not to visit last weekend].

    Until this attorney stepped in, Mom was contemplating filing a motion to reduce Dad's parenting time (at her son's request) but she was reluctant to do that because (A) she is tired of going to court and (2) Dad constantly accuses her of brainwashing the son, manipulating him to do what she wants, etc.

    Questions:  How does son retain the attorney?  Does Mom have to sign the retainer agreement for him?

     

    Lisa M. Radell, Esq.

    207 South Main Street

    Cape May Court House, NJ 08210

    Tel (609) 465-9910

    Fax (609) 465-9920

     



  • 2.  RE: Attorney for Child

    Posted 07-13-2016 05:38 PM
    Lisa I have had this many times. File motion for Mom to say what son wants. Ask the Court to interview son. Every one I have done the Court has interviewed the child and made a ruling. No need for attorney for son.

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  • 3.  RE: Attorney for Child

    Posted 07-13-2016 05:57 PM

    Mom should file a motion under Rule 5:8A for a lawyer for the child, not a GAL.

     

    I have made the motion successfully in a high conflict case, and the lawyer for the child did a brilliant job.  He cut the conflict in half pretty quickly.  If you have the right judge, it can work really well.

     

    The difference between a lawyer for a child and a GAL is that the lawyer for the child advocates what the child wants, whereas the GAL has to advocate the child's best interests, even if the child says "That's not what I want."

     

    In theory, you could have both a GAL and a lawyer for the child, but in most cases that will be overkill.

     

    Look at Rule 5:8A:  It actually says a precondition to appointment of a lawyer for the child is the trial court's determination "that a child's best interest is not being sufficiently protected by the attorneys for the parties."  Mom's motion must address that issue, which should be pretty easy given your overview comments.  This doesn't mean the lawyers have to be made to look bad, but rather, it should be said that despite their efforts, the problems are intractable and are getting worse.  The purpose of the lawyer for the child is to be an advocate who knows what the child wants and is willing to push for that result.

     

    Hanan

     

    RULE 5:8A. Appointment Of Counsel For Child

    In all cases where custody or parenting time/visitation is an issue, the court may, on the application of either party or the child or children in a custody or parenting time/visitation dispute, or on its own motion, appoint counsel on behalf of the child or children. Counsel shall be an attorney licensed to practice in the courts of the State of New Jersey and shall serve as the child's lawyer. The appointment of counsel should occur when the trial court concludes that a child's best interest is not being sufficiently protected by the attorneys for the parties. Counsel may, on an interim basis or at the conclusion of the litigation, apply for an award of fees and costs with an appropriate affidavit of services, and the trial court shall award fees and costs, assessing same against either or both of the parties.

    Note: Adopted November 6, 1989 to be effective January 2, 1990; amended July 5, 2000 to be effective September 5, 2000.

    Official Comment for Rules 5:8A and 5:8B

    The purpose of Rules 5:8A and 5:8B is to eliminate the confusion between the role of a court-appointed counsel for a child and that of a court-appointed guardian ad litem (GAL). The Supreme Court's Family Division Practice Committee in its 1987-1988 Annual Report distinguishes the roles.

    A court-appointed counsel's services are to the child. Counsel acts as an independent legal advocate for the best interests of the child and takes an active part in the hearing, ranging from subpoenaing and cross-examining witnesses to appealing the decision, if warranted. If the purpose of the appointment is for legal advocacy, then counsel would be appointed.

    A court-appointed guardian ad litem's services are to the court on behalf of the child. The GAL acts as an independent fact finder, investigator and evaluator as to what furthers the best interests of the child. The GAL submits a written report to the court and is available to testify. If the purpose of the appointment is for independent investigation and fact finding, then a GAL would be appointed. The GAL can be an attorney, a social worker, a mental health professional or other appropriate person. If the primary function of the GAL is to act in the capacity of an expert, then the court should ordinarily appoint a GAL from the appropriate area of expertise. Attorneys acting on behalf of children in abuse or neglect cases and in termination of parental rights cases should act as counsel for the child pursuant to Rule 5:8A rather than in the capacity of a GAL pursuant to Rule 5:8B. See, Matter of M.R., 135 N.J. 155, 174, 638 A.2d 1274, 1283 (1994)).

    These rules are not intended to expand the circumstances when such appointments are to be made; neither are these appointments to be made routinely.

     


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    Hanan M. Isaacs, Esq.

     

    t 609.683.7400   f 609.921.8982

    e [email protected]   w www.hananisaacs.com

    4499 Route 27, Kingston NJ

    From: Lisa Radell via New Jersey State Bar Association [mailto:[email protected]]
    Sent: Wednesday, July 13, 2016 5:22 PM
    To: [email protected]
    Subject: Family Law : Attorney for Child

     

    I have a client [Mom] who is the PPR of her 12 year old boy. She has been in and out of court for 6 years on an ugly custody matter. Sparing you... -posted to the "Family Law Section" community







  • 4.  RE: Attorney for Child

    Posted 07-13-2016 06:16 PM

    I respectfully disagree.

     

    Not every child is articulate.  Many judges don't want to interview children.  In the right cases, a lawyer appointed for a child can be a breakthrough agent.

     

    It's certainly not a panacea, and the Rules of Court say the appointments are not intended to be made routinely.

     

    Hanan

     


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    Hanan M. Isaacs, Esq.

     

    t 609.683.7400   f 609.921.8982

    e [email protected]   w www.hananisaacs.com

    4499 Route 27, Kingston NJ

    From: Elizabeth Logan via New Jersey State Bar Association [mailto:[email protected]]
    Sent: Wednesday, July 13, 2016 5:38 PM
    To: [email protected]
    Subject: RE: Family Law : Attorney for Child

     

    Lisa I have had this many times. File motion for Mom to say what son wants. Ask the Court to interview son. Every one I have done the Court has... -posted to the "Family Law Section" community







  • 5.  RE: Attorney for Child

    Posted 07-13-2016 07:13 PM
    If I were repping mom in this case, I would want the child to have his own attorney. And dad can't even fight it by saying he can't afford to contribute since there is a pro bono volunteer!

    Mom has taken a lot of bull from dad for years. And then she violated a court order by withholding visitation. Understandable choice from a human perspective but a judge may not agree. Orders are supposed to be followed.

    If what mom represents as the child's wishes are accurate, the attorney for the child will be another voice arguing that the visitation was withheld for good cause. And the positions the child's attorney takes going forward in custody and parenting time motions will likely be viewed most favorably by the judge. The child is the party with the cleanest hands legally (though probably not in real life given my experience parenting a 12 year old boy.) Though I would advise mom her son may not always take the same positions in line with hers in the future . . .


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  • 6.  RE: Attorney for Child

    Posted 07-14-2016 12:32 PM

    Hanan...

    To paraphrase: Not every lawyer is articulate. Many judges do not want to hear from them.

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    Curtis Romanowski Esq.
    Senior Attorney - Proprietor
    Metuchen NJ
    (732)603-8585



  • 7.  RE: Attorney for Child

    Posted 07-14-2016 02:25 PM

    This is why lawyers have been compared to laboratory specimens.

     

     

     

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    Francis G. Grather, Esq.

    Daly & Associates, LLC

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    Morristown, NJ 07960

     

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