....There are ... very practical and sensible reasons why the trial court should not treat the unilateral filing of a spurious complaint as marking the end of the marriage for equitable distribution purposes. To do so would involve the court in a consideration of a myriad of issues such as the reason for filing of the complaint, the reason for its dismissal, and the relationship of the parties after its dismissal.... We adopted the
Painter rule to avoid the necessity of the court and the parties spending inordinate amounts of time and money in seeking the ever-elusive date when their marriage truly ended."
My takeaway is this, Geraldine. In New Jersey, the mere filing of a divorce complaint that is later withdrawn is insufficient to declare the endpoint of a marriage. Absent a signed settlement agreement on property issues or a complaint that eventuates in a Final Judgment of Divorce, you must show a withdrawn complaint, coupled with solid evidence of a separation that shows the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage. The
Genovese case is illustrative. There, the husband obtained a NY divorce -- and immediately remarried his girlfriend. The wife obtained a reversal of the divorce judgment on appeal in New York, and the husband then pursued three successive complaints for divorce in NJ before he got it right. The NJ trial judge in the last case used the date of the NY divorce filing as the endpoint for E.D., an exception to the rule, even though that complaint did not eventuate in a divorce. Why? Because it was an unmistakable ending point to the marriage. The man remarried after the New York divorce was granted. Even though his divorce case was later thrown out, Husband was able to prove to the satisfaction of the trial court and the Appellate Division that the marriage had unmistakably ended.
Maybe you have facts that set your client's case into one of those unusual categories. But it is
NOT the case that a first divorce filing that is withdrawn, by itself, is sufficient to demonstrate the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.
Portner is still good law. The NJ courts do not want parties (or trial judges) to spend time proving exceptions to the rule. The rule remains, as the Supreme Court stated in that case, "We hold that under the
Painter rule in order for a divorce complaint to mark the end of the marriage for the purposes of equitable distribution,
the complaint must commence a proceeding which culminates in a final judgment for divorce." (Emphasis added).
The cases cited in
Genovese explain another reason not to pull the E.D. trigger too fast: equity. Marriages are joint economic and emotional enterprises. People do unexpected and even foolish things: they separate, move out, move back, date, and disagree about what any of that activity meant, or even if it occurred. As a matter of public policy, the courts do not want to declare equitable distribution cutoff dates unless and until the couples themselves declare a clear intention to end the marriage "in the usual ways": by filing for a divorce that ends in a judgment or entering into a full and final property settlement agreement. Short of that, the E.D. cutoff date continues in real time.
Conclusion: Absent unusual and clear evidence of the death of the marriage, a withdrawn divorce complaint is
NOT the endpoint for equitable distribution. The complaint culminating in an actual divorce is.